Radha Mitchell in da Lesbian House!

Ok, so Radha Mitchell, you may be thinking who? Why does that name ring a bell? Well I'll tell you! She played a lesbian in High Art alongside Ally Sheedy, she also played a lesbian in a little known Australian indie film named 'Love and Other Catastrophes'. For those who don't watch lesbian movies (firstly why not, and secondly where are you so I can slap your ass), she was in movies such as Pitch Black, Silent Hill and Melinda and Melinda. Her new movie is Rogue which is why I'm posting about her here.

Radha has long got my ole gaydar beepin' and a hollerin'. Maybe at first it was a pure coincidence because she was a lesbian in a movie and I totally fancied the pants off her. But something about her just makes me think she's in the club. I was listening to a radio interview with her the other day and she was asked about her personal life. So ok she doesn't have to talk about that and a lot of decent stars don't, but she completely avoided it and then just said I don't like talking about who I'm sleeping with. Soooo me being the serious investigative blogger that I am (ahem), I scoured the internet trying to find any kind of mention of her being in a relationship with a guy... with a girl.. with someone! But nope, nothing at all. So I'm thinking Radha could very well use the same publicist as Jodie Foster or something.... maybe it's all in my mind, but whatever. She's cute, she's hot and when she has her original Australian accent.. mmmMMmmmm helllooooo!

As If Angelina Jolie Wasn't Cool Before

Right... so I already know that Angelina Jolie is a goddess... but you have to see this clip of her at the Beowulf premiere in LA recently.
She's walking along the red carpet with Brad and stopping to let people take photos and doing the whole waving thing, when she spots a female (lesbo no doubt) in the crowd wearing an 'Adopt Me Angelina' tshirt. Angelina thinks this is hilarious clearly and climbs over the barrier and over to the fans. She tries to calm the screaming fans a little and then hugs a few of them. The girl with the tshirt takes a photo with Angelina and as if that wasn't enough, Angelina gets a sharpy.. leans in.. hand on breast area.. yeah.. you did just read that right.. hand on breast area.... and signs her tshirt.....

Angie... lesbians the world over adore you.. and this kind of thing is exactly why. Check it out here.

Ali Larter Is A Lesbian - In My Mind

Right, so Ali Larter, hot Heroes chick and cool B-Movie star (Final Destination, House on Haunted Hill, Resident Evil Extinction) never seems to be photographed with a hot guy. Ok, so that in itself doesn't make her a lesbo obviously, she's probably just really busy or just likes to keep her private life to herself right? I'm cool with that... however... she is ALWAYS photographed with her 'best friend' Amy Smart, whom she also happens to live with.



Why does nobody ever question whether the gorgeous Ali is gay? Is it because to the mainstream press she looks too 'straight'? She gets my gaydar buzzing ever so slightly and let's face it, that is always a nice feeling. Her and Amy have lived together for years and yet I've never heard a peep about her being a big ole dyke.



In my mind of course she is, along with half the other Hollywood hotties. Now if only I lived there and was part of the in crowd then I could find out whether she really is or not. There are some others that I would add to the list also, but those are for a different post.

Toys At Work and Googling Up Your Office

We've decided to Google up our office, because quite frankly we're jealous of the lucky SOB's who work for Google and get to play around with expensive toys all day.

Anyway, we have now accumulated in our office the following essential toys: A Zizzle, Grip Ball 2000, Frisbee, Juggling Balls, Basketball Hoop, Paddle Ball, Flying Helicopter Gun Thing...

Yes, myself and my team (there's only two of us but we like to call it a team anyway as their used to be four and then the others got cut), have invented many games throughout the course of the weeks we've had our extra equipment. By far our fav game to play is Frisbee, you wouldn't believe how difficult it is to get to 30 in a small office. It's ridiculous.

Anyway, why am I sharing this with you lovely readers? Well of course to put across the point that we should have some fun at work, all of us. Why work til you die when you have no fun. Bring a little bit of happiness into the workplace. If I were the boss of a large company I'd want my workers to be happy. Sure I wouldn't want them sitting online chatting all day or playing a video game whilst I was paying them.. but now and again we all need to just chill a bit and have some fun.. even the bosses.

Anyway, for no other reason than a shameless oogling moment.. here is something that makes me have fun at the office and always makes me smile.....

Never Being Out Enough

So last night me and Ms Thang decided to go enjoy some Mexican food at our local fav Mexican place and as always it was delicious, but anyway I'm sure you're not interested in what I had to eat. So what's my point? Well ok here it comes.

We're sitting there enjoying our food and at the booth across from us is a group of four lesbians. How could I tell they were lesbians, well aside from the fact they had all the dyke signs, my gaydar was just goin off the chart. Look it wasn't a huge leap though ya know, they had the short hair, the shorts, tight tees, chunky watches, big rings and all the rest of it. Oh also, one of them had her hand on her girlfriends leg under the table, but that was beside the point. So anyway, it got me to thinking about identity and how people never know I'm a lesbian because of how I look. Now, if I'm comfy being the way I am, ie not butch, not femme (at least in my mind) then how do I ever let people know I'm gay without mackin Ms Thang in the middle of the restaurant?

It's something that has annoyed me for some time. I want to be out, I want everyone to know I'm gay and proud of it, but I'm not comfy being butch. I don't give a damn if other dykes are, I'm cool with that, but I just don't feel that is who I am. This gets to me because people naturally assume I'm straight and that gets on my nerves. I was thinking about the dykes at the table across form us and everyone in the restaurant must have known they were gay and there's a real freedom in that. I bet nobody thought we were gay and for some reason that is frustrating. It reminds me of the monologue in the lesbian movie Go Fish where she's saying that she's not out to the person at the bus stop, to the person waiting in line next to her.. and it's so true. Without the tell tale signs, does gaydar really work?...